I remember a time growing up in India where using chopsticks was a rarity and a skill indeed, given you rarely saw them at a regular Chinese restaurant, only at the 5 stars. Honestly, I loved visiting these restaurants predominantly because I knew Id be able to use chopsticks that day. An art I didn't get to practice very often.I'd later take the chopsticks home, thinking I'd spend more time with them, becoming more proficient in the bargain. That never ended up happening. Two tries later I'd ditch the chopsticks and opt for my spoon or fork instead, it took much less effort and was so much faster.
However on the odd occasion that presented itself wherein I was in the company of people who were dexterous with these two sticks, I'd do my best to look well acquainted with them. My levels of concentration and determination on that particular day would decide how accomplished I'd be.
And then many years later I get married and move to chopstick heaven - THE EAST! Singapore and now Hong Kong. Over here its survival! Whether its takeaway or you being seated at the local food court, that's all you will get to eat your meal with. Chopsticks and a soup spoon! A spoon I grew up hating. Could never understand why anyone would substitute the use of a perfectly well designed table spoon, with this bulky thick piece of ceramic to shove more mass volume,than soup down into my then very little mouth.
And so be careful what you don't wish for, because its more than likely that that's exactly what you will end up with :) Having said that today I could give the chinese a run for their money with my chopstick skills ;)